I reali reali hate my life u noe. I don’t find any point in living in this world at all.

If you really dislike your current way of life, then take positive steps to make it better! No one is responsible for your life. Only you are! Decide to live your life happily and no one can stop you from it! :)

Before you say goodbye, think about the consequences of leaving! Committing suicide is not the easiest way out! In fact, it is the most selfish and irresponsible act! You will end up hurting the hearts of many (especially your parents and your friends) and your unresolved problems will now be carried forward to them! There is no problem in this world that is too big to handle. In fact, the solution is already there and it’s none other than you! You are created with much more resilience and strength than what you can ever imagine! You have the power to decide what to do with your situations and if you are willing to change yourself to deal with the situations, you will be stronger than before!

I was told about a girl who was recently diagnosed with brain tumour. She has only a few months to live and her parents are on the verge of divorce. She broke down shortly after receiving such traumatizing news… but she DECIDED to do something about it instead of sulking about her life! If you see her recently, you will never be able to tell that she only has a few months left to live! She is always so cheerful and happy! She even took part in a talent performance competition and made it to the finals! The song she chose to sing: Fighter!

Be a fighter today and live your life to the fullest! The only person who can stop you from doing it is yourself! The only person who can help you to do it is also YOURSELF!

P/S: You are fearfully and wonderfully made by God  (Psalm 139:14) to live a life that is GREAT! :)

Life is so unfair! I did not get the chance to be selected for the event! When I see how much my friends enjoyed themselves, I felt so miserable…

Life is never fair but it’s always square! I mean it! We don’t get to choose the family we are in, the way we look physically and maybe the in-born talents that we have! But we are given the choice or power to decide whether we are willing to accept things we cannot change and make the best out of it! (of course, if you are really so hard for it, you can change family or go for plastic surgery but remember that these are only superficial solutions!) The attitude you have, the talents and skills that you acquired, the friends that you make, the kind of influence that you have on others and how others have on you eventually is all up to you! That is square cos there is no other way in life to it (just like there is no other way to define a square that can only have 4 corners!)

As for those great events or camps or trips that people seem to have the privileges to go while you may not, please remember that it is the daily encounters, strength and encouragements that you draw from yourself, your friends and God that really make you strong and keeps you going! Do you still remember the most inspiring or enjoyable camp/trip/event that you last went to? How much of that do you still remember? How much of it still has an impact to you? Not much I guess… There is not many camp/trip/event that really make or break your life! Everything still boils down to what you do with each day! Yesterday may be lousy but it should not influence you to live the same old day today! Each day is like a fresh sheet of paper given by God to start afresh and to embark on a new chapter in your life!

Treasure each day! :)